What we say on a regular basis speaks more about us than our looks, diplomas and social media pages. Our speech is our special mark. If you speak badly and often lie, your appearance in a room will make a bad impression.
But if you know how to be discreet and polite, if you can show your authenticity in what you say – you will be instinctively respected even by those who do not know you.
Never speak badly of yourself. What you say has an impact on your life and the world around you on so many levels. If you keep saying that you are awkward or that you have no taste, that you are stupid, this image becomes your projection. People around you start to believe in it, and it becomes your reality. The truth is that you are limitless, your possibilities are limitless, and there is no limit in you that cannot be worked out.
Never speak ill of others. There is nothing more destructive than the habit of talking badly about someone – it is the lowest level at which communication can manifest itself. What if someone is objectively wrong? If someone really did something wrong and hurt you or your friends? Anyway, don’t let your speech be judgmental. Remember, everything you say about someone you say about yourself in the first place. And when you judge someone, you take their karma on yourself.
Be polite. Politeness is the weapon that defeats the strongest provocateur. Be polite to someone who is rude and aggressive to you – and you both will feel that your superiority in this conflict is obvious.
Be grateful. Never forget to say “Thank you” or “I appreciate it”. The more these words appear in your speech, the more people and situations in your life will really want to say the same to you.
Tell the truth. What does truth have to do with prosperity? There is a direct connection. Prosperity is not so much wealth as it is a feeling of complete satisfaction. It arises when one knows his own place and destination, when one has a sense of belonging. If you learn to manifest your true relationships, intentions, and feelings, your life will truly be yours.
Written By Tyara Wolf
Psychology and Personal Development